Gifts for men: what to get the guys on your list

Best Gifts for Men

When it comes to buying gifts for men, the rules are pretty simple. Unlike women, most guys like getting gifts that make their lives easier. If it means one less trip to the mall, all the better. If it entertains them, it’s a winner. While women like gifts that make them feel pampered, men like gifts that give them more time to do the things they like doing (i.e., having fun). So if you buy them a new work wardrobe, that means they can spend more time, you guessed it, having fun. Whether it’s enjoying their wine collection or playing video games.

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BCBG Satin Clutch: Belisi Spotlight

Metallic clutches are just as hot this season as the last. This satin and mesh BCBG clutch is so of the moment it’s perfect for special events or after work cocktails.

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Online Dating: increase your odds, and weed out the duds

Dating Advice from Engage.com's top matchmaker.

Logo20 You’re a cute girl, so you have no problems getting dates, right? But lets face it. How often does the man of your dreams approach you at the grocery store and ask you out? Instead it’s the 40 and never married guy with the comb-over from accounting who won’t take no for an answer, or the lame-o in line at the bank that offers up cheesy lines like, “so you bank here huh?”. In today’s busy world with infinite ways to communicate with each other, why is it so hard to connect?

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Discounted Designer Clothes in NYC: Does it get any better?

What do Rebecca Taylor, Chloe, Balenciaga, and Marc by Marc Jacobs have in common? Other than being among my favorite designers, they're also appearing at Lucky Magazine's "Lucky Shops" on October 26-27 in New York City for two days of fabulous SATC style shopping (cocktail in hand of course!). Shop elite designer collections marked up to 70% off!  Don't you just hate it when you find the perfect pair of jeans and have to wait for them to get hemmed? Well this event is all about instant gratification. Find a sweet pair of denim and get them hemmed on the spot!

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The B List

1. Shecky’s

Presspass001 What it is: Shecky’s is a multi-platform media company that keeps us gals city-savvy and in-the-know with daily brewed online content on neighborhood-centric nightlife, fashion, beauty, and entertainment venues. They’re also the ingenious folks who thought up the Shecky’s Girls Night Out concept.

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Multi-seasonal fashion—is it possible?

Remember the days when trends lasted one season? To be caught wearing last season’s “it” item was the Kiss of Death. Now we cross our fingers and hope that skinny jeans and metallics come back for encore performances. Well, we got our wish. And for those of us who love wearing dresses—even in the dead of winter—we can hold on to most of those too. Finally, the style mavens are cutting us some slack!

A Leg up on Leggings

You’ve probably noticed that leggings are back in a big way, so if you were holding out to make sure the trend caught on, now’s the time to catch up to the early adopters. According to Michelle Antonelli, design director of Cable & Gauge and Spenser Jeremy, wearing leggings can be tricky (and you thought it was as easy as one leg after another).

To avoid further confusion, Ms. Antonelli breaks it down for us.

How to wear leggings

Leggings • Pick an easy style dress in one of the new baby doll, a-line or trapeze shapes.
• Go soft by selecting a feminine printed georgette or an easy soft knit dress in a great color.
• Keep it simple by opting for a solid color legging in black or brown
• Keep it in proportion. Make sure the dress or top you select hits just at or above the knee. If you’re wearing a mini-dress, select Capri length leggings and a ballerina flat.
• Skip the hosiery and show off your ankles and the top of your foot by wearing a ballerina flat or colored pump.

Dressing up for the transition from winter to spring/spring to summer

Fashion divas hate to give up their favorite frocks, and fortunately layering is still a key trend, which allows us to wear make a smooth transition. Here are some simple tips from Ms. Antonelli on making your must-have dress span a couple of seasons.

Favorite Sheer Printed Dress: When the weather is chilly pair with a great turtleneck, tights and boots. When springtime arrives shed the layers and slip into a strappy metallic sandal with the great completer – an abbreviated length cardigan. For a super casual summer look, treat yourself to a fabulous pedicure and slip on your favorite flip flops.

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Essential Sheath Dress: Layer a fine gauge long sleeve knit tee to give the essential dress a jumper look for winter. On a chilly spring day trade in the tee for a soft short sleeved tee or slip into a colorful topper jacket that is just about two inches above the hem of the dress. When it’s time to go sleeveless be sure to select a structured patent leather flat or go for a color or special detail like a bow or buckle. Jimmy Choo recently featured a rich red with vanilla trip and a bow that would be the perfect addition to the essential sheath dress.

Knit Dresses: Matte jersey dresses or separates can be your yeDressleggings_1ar-round friend. Pair with your favorite short cardigan a pair of warm and cozy tights. Many women find knits an essential addition to their travel wardrobe or for those in between days when Mother Nature hasn’t quite figured out what she’d like to do.

The Return of Metallic: How to Make It Work

According to Antonelli, if the runway is an indication of what’s here to stay, then metallics will be with us for yet another year. Designers have embraced shimmer and retailers are still hot for metallics, but how can we be on trend without blinding ourselves? Here are two quick tips to keep in mind the next time you reach for a metallic piece:

Find Your Shine: Don’t be afraid to experiment. Handbags, shoes, belts, Lurex sweaters and dresses in brocade or jacquard fabrics all feature different degrees of shimmer, from metallic glazes to simple touches of metallic, hardware details (grommets, buckles and rings) and two-tone trims. Cable & Gauge features gold metallic thread details and hardware in its nautical and classic neutral resort styles that can be worn from late winter and into spring. The summer line will also offer shimmery shells.

Opt for Simple Shimmer: Remember less is more when it comes to metallic and the trick to pulling off the luxe look is to pick one piece and let it shine. It’s easy to start at the top by selecting a metallic knit with a special detail like a kimono sleeve or a blouson shape and dress it up with a velvet skirt for cocktails or pair it with jeans for a casual look. Experiment and investigate this trend, it’s here to stay… at least for now.

Special thanks to Michelle Antonelli, design director of Cable & Gauge and Spenser Jeremy for her fabulous advice!

~A. Covington for Belisi Fashions

Entertaining Like a Pro

Part Three: The Bubbly

Whether you're throwing New Year’s Eve party or a party just because you can, a Champagne toast is always a welcome event. Don’t let the search for that perfect bubbly to fit both the occasion and your pocketbook spoil the celebration. Here are some champagne tips from m National Wine Director Marian Jansen op de Haar of Fleming’s Prime Steakhouse & Wine Bar.

Vive La France: Champagne is a dry white wine made from grapes grown only in the region of Champagne in France. Perrier Jouet, Grand Brut France NV is an excellent choice. Crisp and lively, it features lingering flavors of fresh apples and lemons making it a great companion to hors d'oeuvres. Another good choice is the extra dry Moet & Chandon White Star France NV, which has mellow well-developed flavors and just a hint of sweetness.

Make It Sparkle: Sparkling wine uses the same process, fermenting sugar in white wine, as Champagne. The only difference is that sparkling wine can be made anywhere from California to Russia while Champagne cannot. A superb sparkling wine to try is Gloria Ferrer, Blanc de Noirs Sonoma County NV. The rich, bright strawberry, raspberry, and black cherry aromas are enhanced by a lush palate, small, lively, bubbles, and a persistent finish.

Corral the Cork: Once a Champagne or sparkling wine has been selected, resist the urge to “pop” the cork as that releases too many bubbles too quickly resulting in a flat wine. While holding the bottle at a 45-degree angle and covering the cork with your thumb, loosen the wire cage and slowly twist the bottle. Slowly pour into a Champagne flute, and delight in the explosion of tiny bubbles.

If you’re feeling daring, raise a glass of more than just bubbly with this signature champagne cocktail recipe created by Oren Cohen of Nobu 57 in New York.

Agua Luca’s 07 Heaven

1.5 oz. Água Luca™
1.5 oz. Champagne
½ oz. Fresh lemon juice
½ oz. Honey
Sugar the rim of the flute. Melt honey gently in a shaker by immersing the shaker in hot water; add lemon juice and Água Luca™ and shake. Add half champagne to shaker and pour into flute; top off with remainder of champagne.

~A. Covington for Belisi Fashions

Entertaining Like a Pro

Part Two: The Food

The key to a successful party is to have plenty of food and [adult] beverages. So how do you keep the food hot and on a continuous rotation out of the kitchen? Jennifer Purcell, an assistant professor at The Culinary Institute of America and maître d’ instructor at St. Andrew’s Café, one of five public restaurants on the CIA’s main campus in Hyde Park, New York, suggests tapas, or bite-sized appetizers, which offer bite-sized foods with minimal time in the kitchen.

“Serving tapas allows you to have a larger crowd without compromising the quality and taste of the food,” Purcell says. “Typically, 10-15 pieces per person is adequate for the average appetite. When planning the items you wish to serve, offer a variation of food textures, tastes, temperatures and preparations that will please the crowd and avoid overburdening you and your kitchen.”

Not sure what qualifies as a “bite-sized” appetizer? It’s pretty simple: they should be self-contained bites of food that you can gobble in one bite. So your guests shouldn’t have to spread anything on them or have to hold it together while they balance their drink and plate. Consider serving items that could fit into a teaspoon and always remember to offer vegetarian options, and creative, non-alcoholic beverage options.

Short Cuts

Sometimes you have to take short cuts in life. And with the introduction of specialty gourmet frozen foods, a fancy and delicious meal may be just minutes away. With the growing popularity of sushi, it makes a great option for a slightly less traditional meal (perfect for those Zen-inspired parties). With the creation of frozen sushi, a healthy holiday snack can be kept in the refrigerator or freezer and ready to eat within minutes, so there’s no messy clean up or heating up required. If you’re stuck on what to serve or want to try something different, check out Banzai Sushi of Seattle, which has been producing quality frozen sushi since 1997.

If you find yourself really cutting it close, go to CHOW.com, a food website aimed at the 25- to 40-year old set, where you can find tips on throwing an “emergency” cocktail party—meaning you waited until the last minute to prepare or worse, your other plans fell through and you’ve been nominated to host at the 11th hour.

If you have a little time to spare and want to kill all birds with one stone (don’t really kill any birds please!), head to SAM’S CLUB, where you can stock up on all your party essentials, just like professional caterers. Pick up plenty (and we mean plenty) of frozen hors d’oeuvres like mini quiches, crostini, or cooked shrimp that only need to crisp in the oven or are served at room temperature. Frozen cakes and miniature cream puffs only need thawing, a drizzle of sauce, and a holiday garnish to look and taste great. Affordable luxuries like caviar and fine chocolates are a hit but don’t require hours in the kitchen. It’s surprising but true, you can get it all at Sam’s Club.

For a party without a hitch, let “make ahead” be your mantra. The more food preparation you can do before your party, like making and freezing ingredients or appetizers, the more you’ll relax and have fun. After all, it’s your party.

Party on the Move

You want to have a civilized party, not a feeding at the trough-like frenzy. While you want to keep your guests’ bellies full you want to keep them moving and their minds off of food.

“Instead of putting food in one place, create food stations around the room to get people moving,” says Purcell. “Remember to place small ‘catch containers’ at each station for used toothpicks, skewers and spoons, so guests aren’t left carrying them, or worse, hiding them in plants or bookcases.”

And while you want your guests to feel at ease, you also want all of your guests to interact with each other—especially if you have any solo guests.

“Limiting the number of seats encourages guests to mingle and move. As a general rule, provide seating for half the number of invited guests. When selecting music, choose songs that are not too loud or obtrusive so that guests can converse comfortably.”

When it comes to dessert there are lots of options, from tarts to truffles, but a popular dessert for parties is fondue. “Fondue is an ideal dessert for a festive holiday gathering” Purcell says. “Set out melted cheese with assorted types of breads and fruit or chocolate with plenty of fun dippers like marshmallows, fruit, pound cake and pretzels. Keep other sweets and desserts, such as cookies, cakes, and brownies, bite-sized too. Prepare as much as possible in advance so that you can enjoy the evening with your guests.” You can also use chocolate in addition or in place of cheese.

New Year’s Resolutions in Full Force

After all the eggnog and cheese balls you’ve ingested in the past few weeks, you and your guests are probably ready to start those New Year’s diets (or maybe not!). Either way, you don’t have to completely forget about healthy options when planning your party.

Registered Dietitian Samantha Heller at NYU Medical Center says that it’s easy to be the ultimate host while being health conscious at the same time.

“Follow the trend of being trans fat free and start your party off right with some spruced up dips like a beet and goat cheese dip or pumpkin hummus,” she says. “You can include old party favorites like potato chips as sides but look for the better ones like Lay's potato chips, which have zero trans fats and are now made with sunflower oil, a heart healthy oil. Your guests will never know the difference in taste!”

~A. Covington for Belisi Fashions

Entertaining Like a Pro

Part One: The Scene

So you’ve decided to host a cocktail party. Invitations--or eVites--are out but now is the time to start preparing. The idea is to provide a festive, yet pressure-free, environment for your guests. If you’re running around at the last minute, you’re guests will feel the frazzle too.

First, take a step back and think about the overall “feel” or theme of the party.

“Think of your home as a party space,” says New York restaurateur/style guru Donatella Arpaia, who was crowned “Hostess with the Mostess” by Zagat’s. “Think about where people congregate - maybe the hallway, the kitchen; by anticipating where the flow will be, you can decorate accordingly. And don't forget the bathroom - decorate it with candles or special hand towels in a bowl, and be sure to clean up the medicine cabinet - guests will look inside!”

Set the Mood

Lighting: Everyone feels festive and relaxed in dim lights, colored light and candlelight; use all three.

Food: Make one dish the star of the show instead of slaving over lots of complicated dishes; serve in individual portions to set your food apart from others - ramekins, crème brulée saucers, even sake boxes will create pretty, easy-to-handle dishes.

Get help: Go to your favorite restaurant and ask if any waiters are available to work your party; many are looking for extra work and the expense is very reasonable for a few hours.

Etiquette: Greet guests immediately with a drink, and be sure to offer interesting non-alcoholic cocktails. Introduce guests to each other, especially those arriving solo.

Other than beverages, food is a big part of a successful party. Read all about what to serve in Entertaining Like a Pro: Part 2.

~A. Covington for Belisi Fashions